We had a busy day yesterday with church in the morning and a special ordination service at 2pm for our dear friend Trent and his wife Risa. We got home around 4:30, and we decided to go ahead and set up the piñata. After all, we coukdnt be traditional and eat cake! It was a cute piñata, I was a little sad to break him open but then again, he was taking up space in the closet.
We didn't have any rope, so we decided to hang it off of our front yard tree so all the neighbors could see. Micah broke the stick on the first swing...so we had to find a broom handle. It was oddly satisfying to be 25 and doing a piñata. It was filled with candy and plastic toy dinosaurs. We threw the candy away because I wasn't going to eat year old candy, nor was I going to let my husband eat it either. I did get him to take an anniversary picture holding our wedding picture though. Win for me!
I find it fitting (and a little scary still) that the day after our first anniversary we are going to tackle our next big thing...moving this summer. Today we are meeting with the counselors at SIUE to get my husband's transfer stuff all worked out and hopefully get him signed up for classes in August.
I go back and forth on being excited to start this new adventure to terrified of this new chapter in our life. I'm not so much worried about not being able to find a place to rent or going hungry, I'm just feeling overwhelmed with it all. The last time I moved, I was 3 and we were moving off the military base to Salem.
After we got married we kept living in my moms house. My mom moved when I was 20, and I lived alone for, what, 4 years? Then we got married 1 year ago. Well...when mom moved she took what she needed, and the rest is still here. When my grandmother died, they gave us like..3 days to have her things moved our and the apartment ready for someone else because there was a waitlist for it. What that boils down to is...there is a LOT of STUFF in this house. 21 or so years of accumulation! I'm pretty proud how much I've gone through already, but I know its not enough yet. Sometimes it feels like I will never get ahead. I'm sure everyone who has ever moved feels this way at some point, and to be completely honest, it has been kind of fun to go through closets and pull out things and think "that's where that went!!" or "why the heck did I keep this?!...wait, what IS it?" And the accomplishing feeling when we take a car load to the Goodwill or Salvation Army is immeasurable!
We don't need or use nearly half of the "things" we have. HALF! The money we have wasted on just "things" makes me realize how silly we have been. We have been married 1 year, but together for 7 and we have entirely too much "stuff". We had both said we wanted to live simpler.(nothing like that show on TV, whats it called? They live in basically sheds? I don't know, we don't have cable..) Let me tell you, the motivation of moving soon has made me evaluate and get rid of nearly half of my clothes..I don't wear them! We have sold several items that are not junk but that we don't need, and the extra money has been great-we went on an extra weekend getaway because we had sold enough stuff.
That's what we want to start doing. In our first year or marriage we have seen 2 foreign countries and traveled into 5 states. Instead of buying clothes we don't need, or just things we see and want, we have been using our extra income to travel. Which I LOVE by the way. I'm so happy that my husband has experienced travel like I have and that it makes him excited to go new places.
All in all, I'm excited for today. I have questions to ask, a notepad to take notes on the apartments we see, and I'm sure everything will be fine. (Don't ask me that on actual moving day though :) ) The words of Luke 12:22 remind me that I am taken care of!
"(22) Then Jesus said to his disciples: " Therefore I tell you, do not worry about your life, what you will eat; or about your body, what you will wear. (23) Life is more than food, and the body more than clothes. (24) Consider the ravens: They do not sow or reap, they have no storeroom or barn; yet God feeds them. And how much more valuable you are than birds! (25) Who of you by worrying can add a single hour to his life? (26) Since you cannot do this very little thing, why do you worry about the rest?"
Luke 12:22-26